Don’t play stupid, I see and smell bullshit from a mile away. Stop trying to manipulate women into being with you by trying to victimize yourself. Women see this and it’s creepy as fuck. The problem is you don’t like women you think women are below you.

I’m not sure whether I should be insulted or laugh at this. Do you really believe that because some random you never met in person, but saw on a comments section is incompetent with women, that he’s some cartoon-level incel tool? Just what kind of crowd are you surrounding yourself with? For now I choose to laugh at the profound absurdity of this statement because I know that your description is dead wrong.

You probably wonder why some of the sexist piece of shit men you know can get a wife and a girlfriend or whatever its because at least they are honest about it. They don’t hide it. So women at least know what they’re getting themselves into.

Now this is just offensive. Insulting my coupled up and married friends and relatives (again, who you haven’t met in person) with an ad-hominem presumption. I haven’t asked all of them what exactly they said to and did for the women they met to get together, but they are definitely NOT ‘sexist pieces of shit’. They have worked hard at making something of their lives that their eventual wives and consorts wanted to share and weren’t nervous when courting. As for my women friends who are steady or married, I would like to be even half the man their husbands and consorts are: high achievers who again, said and did all the right things and can afford to provide the lifestyle they deserve AND be good parents to their children (if any).

Which brings me to If you truly want to be happy with a woman first figure out why you think you deserve a woman. I don’t believe I ‘deserve’ anyone. I’m more preoccupied (to the point of madness) with the more relevant question “Will I ever be good enough for any woman I like?” At the moment I cannot give myself permission to say ‘yes’ because I haven’t created the kind of life that they would want to be part of or fixed myself to gain some parity with other men they may know; it would be irresponsible to drag anyone down with me. I’ve spent the past two decades trying to get to the level I need to be at to be ‘worth it’, I may be too old by the time I’m halfway there. That’s why I’m probably as fearful of being with someone because I may be a DISAPPOINTMENT.