This is why being attracted to women feels like an imposition and being found out is like being busted. If you’re too ‘nice’, you’ve got a sinister motive but if you start to think you have to be a jerk to get women to like you, you’re misguided.

In my personal experience I found that there were attractive women who became proper friends because I didn’t allow myself to be interested in them (they were married/with someone else/I just couldn’t be bothered to risk another humiliating rejection/I can’t date until I’m financially sound), but ALL the ones I dared to show any interest in totally went ‘yuck’.

Ergo, if you’re not the right one for any women, being attracted to them is a liability and you may end up being alone for life.