You do understand that 'get a woman you liked' simply means to be able to be worthy of someone so they may go out with you and doesn't imply the ownership or dehumanization you're suggesting? I remember our previous interaction pretty well. Why are you so quick to believe that all guys think like that?

I can't speak for other guys but I'll be the first to say I suck at life and am haven't met whatever 'manly standards' have been set in pop culture and real life. I took 28 months to get another steady job when I failed horribly in one that I wanted to make it in, haven't been in any relationship at all and prefer to keep a low profile so that folks don't have to see how far behind I am. I can't afford to go on vacation as often as everyone else. Lots of things I wanted to achieve have been trashed or set back years because I didn't do something the exact right way first time.... while everyone else could.

Would I like to do better? Of course! But it's never been good enough to pass an acceptable standard. And I am the meanest judge when self assessing.